What is the "right" woman for you? Do you have a critical list of definetaly cant stands? or what is so so important to you for longevity? Looks yea nice all that- education- moral codes they live by- personality- something in common- what is the right one for you? most people say I'll take the hot looking one but they may have no personality, they may have the wrong attitude such as: if you don't have nice clothes/job/car/ things etc then this says this person is superficial about the real world. You steer clear of gals that want you to be different then what you are or perhaps you are materialistic and vain? know who you are & what you want in a gal. Do you want #1honesty, attractiveness but does she has to be bay watch? are your goals to high or perhaps not high enough? it takes 3 seconds according to a survey when 2 people connect magentism the charismic thing. How do they treat others in general is what you should find attractive, how people like them is a big clue. Whatever you have for your mental note of what you don't want may help. It is hard to know all you do want. That list may be never ending. Practical is what turns you off and work from there. honestly know what your needs are to make you complete. How about someone that can make your fantasies come true and yet be an all around happy gal well liked and grow from there? Things like she can't cook or play an instrument or has a college degree can be things worked out or evened out in other ways. If your just into bay watch chiks, then it won't last long because those type have unrealistic criteria for their needs.What type makes you laugh? that you can take to a ball game and she understands that its the game that's going on and not the break time to flirt with others. Women also like to be complemented more then men. Make sure your doing your part no matter how silly you may think a comment may sound we are hard work. We like acceptance and to feel that. Look in places where you have a hobby or like to do things. If you are looking in bars that doesn't last. School, gym, social events,job, friends networking is best way if they know what you like.
Jeffrey
2006-06-17 23:31:27 UTC
There is no "right" woman. If there is, she is sexy, great in bed, builds up your ego, is always happy to do what you want, loves your parents, has a "perfect body"...loves to do housecleaning, doesn't like to shop anything but budget stores, and never looks at another man. You can't have it all in any one person, and your definition of "all" may include some or none of the characteristics I've mentioned.
izofblue37
2006-06-19 17:33:02 UTC
Stop looking....Become the type of man that the right woman is looking for and wants. If you are kind, loving, generous, supportive, understanding, etc. She will be looking for you. :)
anonymous
2006-06-20 00:03:22 UTC
Because you can't even figure out how to post in the right place. You are in the Portland Dining section.
tula_p
2006-06-17 20:57:10 UTC
Probably not looking in the "right" places.
I hear this from my friends often....but they refuse to look where they may find someone decent?
Good luck, T
G.O.A.T.
2006-06-17 22:32:34 UTC
Here are some websites you should look into to help you with that: